The Endless State of Engagement
As much as I love Michael, and as much as I love the fact that I'm going to marry him, I hate being engaged. Planning a wedding. Not fun. Not easy. Planning a wedding while going to school and working. Nearly impossible. Not only are we busy trying to get all of these things ready, but we are also finding that learning to work with someone else is hard. When it's just you you can do what you want. You don't have to think about how your actions will affect someone else. I mean you should , but you don't have too. Well, being engaged means thinking of the other person and thinking of the future in every decision you make. People should think of those things anyway, but when you are planning and preparing for a life with someone it makes it even more important. I think one of the things my betrothed and have a problem with is that in our time as single people we have become somewhat unmoldable. We were so focused on becoming someone and being that person no matter